"Do not wait until all the conditions are perfect for you to begin. Beginning makes the conditions perfect."

—  Alan Cohen (via alicedraper)

(Source: purplebuddhaproject, via yeahwriters)

nevver:

Second banana

Smile.
"The really important kind of freedom involves attention, and awareness, and discipline, and effort, and being able truly to care about other people and to sacrifice for them, over and over, in myriad petty little unsexy ways, every day."

David Foster WallaceThis Is Water: Some Thoughts, Delivered on a Significant Occasion, about Living a Compassionate Life

humansofnewyork:

I got into Ukraine late in the evening after 30 hours of travel and about 2 hours of sleep. I was looking forward to sleeping most of the day, but woke up early to a text from my translator: “School begins today. So if you can find a school by 9 AM, you’ll find Ukrainian children with flowers in their hair.”(Kiev, Ukraine)

humansofnewyork:

I got into Ukraine late in the evening after 30 hours of travel and about 2 hours of sleep. I was looking forward to sleeping most of the day, but woke up early to a text from my translator: “School begins today. So if you can find a school by 9 AM, you’ll find Ukrainian children with flowers in their hair.”

(Kiev, Ukraine)

lacigreen:


The romantic soulmate is only one aspect of this notion. 
     Never forget that. 

this is so beautiful and perfect…

lacigreen:

The romantic soulmate is only one aspect of this notion. 

     Never forget that. 

this is so beautiful and perfect…

(Source: toothpastelove, via smartgirlsattheparty)

endangeredbodiesnyc:

Drawn by Tyler Feder 

dynamicafrica:

This must-read article looks at the power of imagery and photography in the growing business of global voluntourism - a popular trend amongst youth from Western countries that involves young, and sometimes inexperienced, individuals paying large amounts of money to travel to ‘developing’ nations to do everything from teaching, to building schools and providing healthcare. 

Whilst intentions may be well-meaning, aside from the patronizing aspect of these projects that resemble colonial missionary missions, the very fact that volunteering has been turned into a for-profit business is of major concern. So why does voluntourism still continue to be popular? According to

THE SUFFERING OTHER

In a photograph taken by a fellow voluntourist in Ghana (not shown), a child stands isolated with her bare feet digging in the dirt. Her hands pull up her shirt to expose an umbilical hernia, distended belly, and a pair of too-big underwear. Her face is uncertain and her scalp shows evidence of dermatological pathology or a nutritional deficiency—maybe both. Behind her, only weeds grow.

Anthropologists Arthur and Joan Kleinman note that images of distant, suffering women and children suggest there are communities incapable of or uninterested in caring for its own people. These photographs justify colonialist, paternalistic attitudes and policies, suggesting that the individual in the photograph …

… must be protected, as well as represented, by others. The image of the subaltern conjures up an almost neocolonial ideology of failure, inadequacy, passivity, fatalism, and inevitability. Something must be done, and it must be done soon, but from outside the local setting. The authorization of action through an appeal for foreign aid, even foreign intervention, begins with an evocation of indigenous absence, an erasure of local voices and acts.

THE SELF-DIRECTED SAMARITAN

Here we have a smiling young white girl with a French braid, medical scrubs, and a well-intentioned smile. This young lady is the centerpiece of the photo; she is its protagonist. Her scrubs suggest that she is doing important work among those who are so poor, so vulnerable, and so Other.

The girl is me. And the photograph was taken on my first trip to Ghana during a 10-day medical brigade. I’m beaming in the photograph, half towering and half hovering over these children. I do not know their names, they do not know my name, but I directed a friend to capture this moment with my own camera. Why?

This photograph is less about doing actual work and more about retrospectively appearing to have had a positive impact overseas. Photographs like these represent the overseas experience in accordance with what writer Teju Cole calls the “White Savior Industrial Complex.”

Moreover, in directing, capturing, and performing in photos such as these, voluntourists prevent themselves from actually engaging with the others in the photo. In On Photography, Susan Sontag reminds us:

Photography has become almost as widely practiced an amusement as sex and dancing – which means that…it is mainly a social rite, a defense against anxiety, and a tool of power.

On these trips, we hide behind the lens, consuming the world around us with our powerful gazes and the clicking of camera shutters. When I directed this photo opportunity and starred in it, I used my privilege to capture a photograph that made me feel as though I was engaging with the community. Only now do I realize that what I was actually doing was making myself the hero/star in a story about “suffering Africa.”

THE OVERSEAS SELFIE

In his New York Times Op-Ed, that modern champion of the selfie James Franco wrote:

Selfies are avatars: Mini-Me’s that we send out to give others a sense of who we are…. In our age of social networking, the selfie is the new way to look someone right in the eye and say, “Hello, this is me.”

Although related to the Self-Directed Samaritan shot, there’s something extra-insidious about this type of super-close range photo. “Hello, this is me” takes on new meaning—there is only one subject in this photo, the white subject. Capturing this image and posting it on the Internet is to understand the Other not as a separate person who exists in the context of their own family or community. but rather as a prop, an extra, someone only intelligible in relation to the Western volunteer.

(via racialicious)

hisnamewasbeanni:

tehhufflepuffcompanion:

Spoiler alert: adulthood is 96% of you going “well, I hope this is how it works and I’ll keep doing it till someone yells at me”

Only 96%?

(via iamlittlei)

What teaching is teaching me.

I have been teaching in the primary grade levels for 2 years. I’m learning a lot. I have yet to learn to love the job because I’m struggling so much in it. Nonetheless, the teaching profession has provided me with some very valuable lessons. 

1. Balance: Life is about balance and I’m miserable without a work-life balance. I still am not balanced and spend an average of 12 hours a day working, but I know if I am going to survive and stay sane, I need to make time for my family, friends, and me. Through the challenges of teaching, my loved ones have supported me and shined in my life. Although my current work hours are still long, they are an improvement from last year and I try to make good use of my down time with the important people in my life. 

2. Staying Positive: With learning and students, it is about learning from missteps, building on strengths, and the courage to try again and again. Also, to celebrate progress. 

3. Humility: Some days are really good but the next day can be very bad. One thing can work stellar with a group of students, but flunk with another. 

4. Happiness is a Choice: There are too many challenges in teaching that can stress you out and make you depress. However, I didn’t choose to quit. *Knock on wood.* So, I choose to face the challenges and make the best with what I have. I have to put myself in a special mindset so that I can be happy with what I’ve decided to do. No victims card. Nobody can make me happy but me.